My answer would have to be BOTH because I believe people can achieve both in true soul connections (A very, very, very special connection). To only play with someone you recognize as a kindred spirit and to never have any physical contact with one you are so drawn too is a very painful thing to endure. Not to mention frustrating. And self-defeating! Been there. Done that. Made me a very unhappy person.
What draws you more to a person? Beauty in appearance or Beauty from within?
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"Love one another but make not a bond of love. Let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls" ~~~~Khalil Gibran~~~~
Beauty from within, of course. And as I was out amongst the people today I saw so very much beauty... We are all so connected at a soul level, we are all always part of each other. But it is joyful to physically, presently share with kindred spirits - what a special gift from the Universe and each other!
On such a beautiful night as this: on a sailboat or a motorbike with your sweetie?
To be honest and clarify, must admit that like most people, a handsome face and form attract my attention, but it quickly shifts away if what is inside the package is unattractive or uninteresting. Also, if we are talking about friendship, the outer does not have to be attractive. Sometimes a person's essence shines thru to make them very attractive regardless of their physical form. For purposes of sexual attraction, there must be a physical attraction as well as an attraction to the inner person. This seems like it would be a common answer that question.
Having said that, I would add that once a sexual love relationship has been established, if the loving and sexual feelings are preserved and cherished/nurtured over time, the lovers would desire to give each other joy and pleasure even if their physical forms no longer were attractive in the generally perceived way. Their love would make them still beautiful to each other... That is when you see 80 yr olds smiling at each other coyly and romantically! Rare but oh so beautiful!
I will choose the motorbike, Lady G, I have a very NICe motorcycle fantasy that needs addressing someday soon. (Before I get too old to swing my leg over the seat, that is.)
Depends on my mood, but would say smooth jazz, some with vocals and some not. It's relaxing and upbeat. Listening to the blues sometimes makes me blue, tho some of it is quite beautiful and I enjoy it now and then. Fast-paced jazz is sometimes too repetitive, which gets on my nerves. Listening to upbeat smooth jazz is good for cheering me up if I'm feeling bored, subdued, or a little down.